For nearly a decade, I’ve faced the double pressures of caring for little kids as well as my elderly parents, but only in the past couple years have I felt the real squeeze of the sandwich (the panini press? the George Foreman grill?). Everyone in my family is relatively healthy (thank goodness), so it only comes in spurts, but those small eruptions of added responsibility and sometimes hectic activity often leave me spinning—and worrying about what’s to come.